What if you had the Power to Make it Happen? 

What do Emma Watson, Kate Winslet, Renée Zellweger, Maya Angelou, and the Producer of the Batman Movies have in common?

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  • Do you:
  • Undervalue achievements?
  • Hold back from asking for what do you are worth?
  • See the one thing in the list of competencies that you can't do rather than the 99% that you excel at?
  • Have you experienced sitting staring at a blank piece of paper, next to a mountain of crumpled up sheets with discarded ideas that you felt weren't good enough to present?
  • Do you go into a meeting and outwardly confident but inside you are terrified that your cover will be blown, and you will be revealed as a phoney?
  • Are you so worried about how others perceive you that you are overlooking the numerous successful things you've done?
  • Instead of having an accurate picture of you as an accomplished skilled, intelligent achiever, you see nothing but a flawed picture of yourself. One where you've fooled everyone into thinking, you are something that you're not.

These are all symptoms of a phenomenon that has been called Imposter Phenomenon or syndrome. Imposter Phenomenon (IP) is an intense feeling that your success, status or achievements are built on a fraud and at any moment everyone is going to find out!

First, let's set the record straight.  Feeling like a fraud, phoney or imposter affects men as well as women. When the psychologist Pauline Clance first identified IP in 1985 (The Imposter Phenomenon: Overcoming the Fear that Haunts Your Succes), she believed that it only affected women. Although it seems more widespread among women than men, the truth is the common factor amongst people who feel this way is, pressure to succeed, not gender.

If you recognise yourself as someone who is afflicted by IP, you are not alone!

If you recognise yourself as someone who is afflicted by IP, you are not alone. Emma Watson, Kate Winslet, Renée Zellweger, Dr Margaret Chan (Director of WHO), Michael Uslan (producer of the Batman movies) and Maya Angelou are just a handful of the many successful people have all expressed that they are often plagued by feelings that their success is not deserved, or it will be discovered that they are a fraud. In an interview with The Los Angeles Times (2004) actor, Don Cheadle, famous for his portrayal of War Machine in Iron Man 2 and 3, confessed that he could bearly stand to watch himself in movies "All I can see is everything I'm doing wrong that is a sham and a fraud", said Don. 

The screenwriter Chuck Lorre, who created the hit comedies Two and a Half Men and The Big Bang Theory, admitted on National Public Radio that he felt the need to go and hide when he watched his rehearsals. "When you go and watch a rehearsal of something you've written and it stinks, the natural feeling is 'I stink.' I'm a fraud. I need to go and hide,'" he said.

And you'd probably be surprised to know that these are the words of the world famous author and poet Maya Angelou "I have written eleven books, but each time I think, "Uh oh, they're going to find out now. I've run a game on everybody, and they're going to find me out.'"

But it is not just the highly visible who struggle with IP. IP is something that I have struggled with all my life. Coming from a high achieving family, my parents had high expectations of us all. Nothing wrong with that but my young mind made this mean that if I weren't successful, if I didn't make the perfect score card, I wouldn't be loved.

Despite overwhelming external evidence of your abilities, when you feel like an imposter you just don't buy it!

I began years of life as a perfectionist. Unlike perfectionist who never get things done, my feelings of an imposter made it imperative that I delivered.

 I became the brightest child in the class, the hardest worker in the team and the most driven manager. I was the dynamic, confident high achiever that everyone looked to get things done.

However, no matter how good my results or how successful I became, I could never shake the feeling that it didn't meet the mark. I dismissed every achievement as "just getting lucky" or the classic " Oh it was nothing." By not celebrating my success I was feeding the monster. So instead of my success leading to happiness, every achievement brought more fear, self-doubt and anxiety.

How people with IP see themselves
What people with IP worry about

The negative things we tell ourselves are simply Not true! 

I had created my very own vicious circle. I couldn't admit to my feelings and get help because then I would be owning up to being an imposter. I felt isolated and alone and concluded that the only thing I could do was to keep it to myself and just get on with it.

However, like many negative things we tell ourselves, this was not true.

If you secretly feel Anxious and Fearful all the time, there is something You can do about it.

If you secretly feel anxious and fearful all the time, there is something you can do about it.

I'd be lying if I said that creating the solution was a deliberate act on my part. Indeed I discovered it quite by accident. What's even funnier, in a "not funny at all" way, is that it took me five years to believe in it enough to offer it to the world. Despite overwhelming evidence from people who had used  the process and achieved amazing results:

  • Clarity
  • Renewed belief in themselves and their abilities
  • Reconnection with who they truly are
  • Clarity about their true purpose
  • A way of sorting out their thought and feelings so that they could separate them into the ones that helped and supported them and those that no longer served them.
  • More energy and drive

I've learnt to my cost that my mindset, not my abilities, is the biggest determinant of not only my success but also my peace of mind, health and well-being. The mind is possibly the most powerful and by implication, the most debilitating asset a person has.

The mind is a person's most powerful asset

Why is that? It's simple, what you think determines how you feel, how you feel is a major determining factor that influences how you act. How are you act is responsible for the results you get.

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Thoughts create feelings

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Feelings drive actions

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Actions create results

I may have been getting results despite feeling like an impostor, but they were nothing like what I have the potential to achieve.

Feeling like a phoney makes you frightened of success. The more success you have, the more fear you feel. Consequently, you mistakenly believe that self-limiting your success is a way of managing the fear. In reality, all this does is limit your potential. Instead of being free to reach your true potential, you clip your wings and limit your flying ability to the short chicken hops, rather than soaring with the eagles.

Manage your thinking and take back control 

  • Separate your fears from the reality.
    If we manage our thoughts or mindset, we can take control of our health and fitness, our productivity and ultimately how successfully we live our lives.
  • Feeling like a phoney saps all they joy out of your achievements
    What's the point of working your socks off and earning your success if you are too afraid of losing it to enjoy your achievements? 
  • You owe it to yourself and others to be happy!
    While negative emotions can drive us to succeed, it is like living life with one foot on the accelerator and at the same time holding the handbrake. You have the right to stand in your power and be confident about the success you have achieved.  In the words of Marianne Williamson, "Your playing small does not serve the world...As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

Something completely DIFFERENT

Of course, there is no shortage of programmes aimed at shifting your thinking.  You may have already tried your fair share. However, like many people, you probably found that any gains you made were short-lived, and it wasn't long before you slipped back into your old way of thinking. 

The problem with many personal development programmes is that they consist of tools and resources that tackle the problem from the outside. Naturally, these programmes offer resources and tools that other people have found useful. Understandably,  they present highly successful people devoid of anything resembling self-doubt, lack of belief or any other form of negative thoughts as examples of their effectiveness.

The trouble with this approach is, if you are already telling yourself:

  • you are wrong,
  • you are not good enough,
  • or "you are an impostor" and it's only a matter of time before people discover you are a fraud

seeing someone who doesn't have these limiting beliefs usually, results in those that do thinking "I could never be like that!"

The brain is a powerful trickster

It is not easy to fool yourself into thinking something that deep down you don't believe. Your unconscious mind only operates with your best interest at heart. Despite what it might look like, your mind holds on to the beliefs that it thinks are protecting you, even if the result is keeping you where you are in life. Therefore, your unconscious mind doesn't give up easily. It's immediate response to new challenging thoughts or beliefs is to convinces you that this despite it working for someone else it couldn't possibly apply to you because "their" circumstances were different, times was different then, etc.

So rather than brow beating yourself with information, one of the best ways to reprogram or retrain your mindset is from within.

 "You already possess everything you need to get everything you want out of all that you have."

Every moment of your life, your brain is taking in information from your experiences and recording it in your heart and mind. We've all done amazing things already. Wherever we are in life, is the culmination of every action you have taken up until that point.

There have been highs and lows and changes of direction. Consequently, every experience holds deep learning and wisdom for us. Unfortunately, most of us spend the majority of our time trapped in our limiting beliefs and a mindset that often keeps us frozen and too stuck to recognise this. For some people, this means they never achieve their true potential. For others, doubts and feelings of unworthiness plague their success, robbing them of the ability to enjoy their achievements and negatively affects their health and their relationships.

It follows that a more effective way to change the way you think and challenge beliefs that hold you back is to take the evidence from your experiences. To self-inspire yourself to success through reflection. 

A few years ago I ran a radio show on a local channel and invited successful women to come along share their stories via a series of momentous moments in their lives. The format I created is similar to the famous BBC Radio 4 show “Desert Island Discs” approach. Guests were asked to tell their story using Seven Momentous Moments in their lives and anchor each moment with a song, which was either significant at the time or with hindsight came to represent that moment for them.

The more women I interviewed, the more I began to realise how profound the process was. The Seven Momentous Moments are moments of self-reflection, a way of taking inventory of oneself.

Going through the process myself and from feedback from my many guests, I learnt that by examining our thoughts, feelings, motivations and subsequent actions we can gain a better understanding and knowledge of what is really true for us and what isn’t. Throughout our lives, we are constantly encountering people, events, tasks, noises, and demands. It becomes very easy to think that we are defined by all the extraneous sensory information we are exposed to. The Seven Momentous Moments process allows you to take time out for yourself and reconnect with your authentic self

A Beautiful process to REDISCOVER and CELEBRATE the real YOU 

Here it is:

The Seven Momentous Moments Discovery Boxset

Seven moments box set

The box set consists of a guided meditation, a workbook and a set of card that depict the Seven Momentous Moments. Each box set is uniquely handcrafted with love: there are only two of each design. 

The guided meditation allows you to create the space, helps prepare your mind and guides your thoughts to a safe place to reflect without judgement or blame. 

The beautifully illustrated workbook walks you through the process and explains how to use the cards and the workbook to create your tailor-made programme in three very simple steps that you can do anywhere, anytime.  You get to work at your own pace, while you are guided to explore each Momentous Moment in detail (through a series of questions that are designed to take you beyond the surface description of simply "what happened"). Using the process, you can tap into your experience and gather the inner wisdom recorded within your subconscious.

The process is a journey to the authentic you that our busy lives usually don't allow us to take.   Rediscovering "You" through the moments that have had a significant impact on your life is one of the most empowering experiences. Formulated to boost your confidence, affirm and celebrate your successes, the Seven Momentous Moments process is a tool you can return to over and over again, to gain more insights or simply because it is so enjoyable.     

Unlock

Inner peace and alleviate stress and anxiety caused by self-doubt

Find

Inner confidence and learn how to quieten the voice of the impostor

Overcome

Limitations and achieve your true potential

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What People Are Saying About
The Seven Momentous Moments

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“The process allowed me to take my inner wisdom and apply it to the rest of my life.”

The process allowed me to take my inner wisdom and apply it to the rest of my life. I was able to revisit moments that were profound and even painful at the time with new clarity and from a different perspective. 

Lynne Sedgmore CBE
-Former Executive Director of 157 Group of FE Colleges (retired)

 "I wasn’t coming from a place of judgment and/or fear."

I would like to say that anyone who has pre conceived ideas that everyone who is spiritual and on a journey to help others with self-discovery, love and spirituality is ‘Airy Fairy’.

... Ola is one of the most charismatic, strongest, high energy, advantageous, business minded and down to earth women I have ever met.

To start the session I did my first guided meditation...being told you are loved and believing it does not come naturally at first. It helped, as all the discoveries made later were much easier to understand when I wasn’t coming from a place of judgment and/or fear.

Looking at an individual moment that had an impact on my life ... I was guided to look at learnings and actions given to me by this moment. 

With Ola’s knowledge, strength, understanding, commitment and love she guides you through the card and questions... to a resolution

Kerry ODowd
- Voice/Performance Coach
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“I was surprised how much I felt so much clearer.”

After doing my moment I was surprised how much I felt so much clearer. It was as if I had flushed out some things that were blocked inside me.

Andrea Graham 
-Trainer, Life Coach, Image Consultant

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SEVEN MOMENTOUS MOMENTS
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The Seven Momentous Moments Discovery Boxset is yours for just £49.95 (plus pp).  We hold limited stock as boxes are made to order, so order now for immediate dispatch. 

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“It’s been the most enjoyable process"

“It’s been the most enjoyable process… It’s shown me my positivity, and that there is so much to be proud of that I can help other people with”

Tanya E Mann Rennick 
-Inspirational Speaker and Presentation Skills Coach

“It was very healing”

“I loved choosing the music. There were so many songs I could have chosen, but when I finally settled on the ones I did choose, I was so clear why and what meaning they had for me. It was very healing.”

Jan Owbridge
-Executive Vice President at Genistar Financial Services
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Ola Agbaimoni
Creator of The Seven Momentous Moments 

About the Creator

Hi, I'm Ola Agbaimoni the “The Coach in the Moment" and otherwise known as "The Business Detective" due to my abilities to detect problems and solve problems like the famous sleuth. I'm the proud founder of Eélan M. M stands for Marketing, Mentoring and Momentous Moments.

I'm passionate about helping women stand in their power and banish those feelings of being an imposter that sap their ability to recognise and celebrate their achievements.

I'm also passionate about creating HUG-able businesses that Get Seen, Give Back and Gain More, more leads, more customers and more cash flow. (HUG stands for Hear Understand and Give back incredible value ).

As well as being a social media specialist, I am also an ordained Interfaith Minister and Spiritual Counsellor, certified coach, NLP practitioner; an accomplished author, speaker, presenter and a Black Belt (2nd Dan) in Tae Kwon Do.

Why should I choose the Seven Momentous Moments? 

"As you become more clear about who you really are, you'll be better able to decide what is best for you - the first time around.”

If you are committed to living in alignment with your purpose, you will have exciting goals and dreams.

Therefore, you owe it to yourself and others to be the best version of you that you can be. Living aligned with your passion as your authentic self is good for you because you will become clearer, more relaxed, more focused and as a result, you will achieve more and be happy with your life and your success. It’s good for everyone else because you will be able to do the things you were called to do to make a positive contribution to the world.

We all know that procrastination, lack of knowledge and lack of the right support, can prevent you from creating the life, business or career you truly love. The Seven Momentous Moments Discovery Boxset is a simple but extremely effective process that gives you Immediate results.

What if it doesn't work for me?

Obviously, it won't work unless you put in the work. Therefore as long as you are open to the process and go through your moments, it is guaranteed to work; in the sense that you will rediscover your authentic self and access your inner wisdom. However, if you are not completely satisfied with your box set, just return it undamaged in its original packing, and I will give you your money back.

Advantage vs Disadvantages

When it came to writing this section, I honestly couldn't think of any disadvantages. Obviously, I am biased, but what is the downside to a programme designed to reconnect you with your authentic self and rediscover your inner wisdom. Do let me know if you think of any.  

The Pros List

  • Simple, anyone can use it
  • Fun and enjoyable. The magic is in the music
  • Reusable and Adaptable 
  • Suitable if you are completely new to personal development or if you are an old hac
  • Unique - there is not the else like it
  • If you don't do it, nothing will change
  • You don't have to sign up to a lengthy programme
  • It's exceptional value for money

The Cons List

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Here's What You Get 

  • The Seven Momentous Moments Workbook
  • A Guided Meditation (audio download) 
  • A special bonus: The Seven Momentous Moments Relationship workbook for Free. 
  • The Seven Momentous Moments Cards
  • A beautiful handcrafted box to keep everything in.

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P.S. What if you could wake up each day and have all the joy, fulfilment and confidence to live your dreams? Guess what? The Seven Momentous Moment Discovery Boxset will give you the power to make it happen. 

This is what living on purpose, in harmony with your authentic self, looks like. Self-inspire yourself to the success that you've always dreamed of. 

If this sounds too good to be true, I'm sure that you can think of people that are already living their life just like this. Instead of admiring them, you can become one of them. 

The secret to success is mastering the principles that make it happen. Start your journey right now free from the forces that have been holding you back.